We're not trying to put a look to urban Christians, but trying to take the stereotypical look away.
People wear their best outfits to clubs, school, or even work, but we dress our best on Sunday mornings.
Most importantly God loves you no matter on appearance or past. He wants you to feel comfortable with him so he can work in, you help you, and heal you.
So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It’s your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it. (Colossians 3:12-14 MSG)